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# Out of Control: Why Disciplining Your Child Doesn't Work and What Will

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Review: Let your child be heard and seen. Explosive meltdowns gone. - This was an incredible book for me. My son’s meltdowns were progressively getting more and more explosive. I had gotten this book when my kids were toddlers. During one of his meltdowns when I didn’t have a clue of how we got there…I grabbed the book. Looked in the table of contents for what I was seeing. Throwing, hitting…. Opened and quickly read the chapters. Low and behold, I had unconsciously screwed up. He was so frustrated and disconnected from not being heard. I fixed the situation at hand. And then consciously worked on myself moving forward. It was bumpy and messy. But the meltdowns decreased significantly and now they are not explosive. We talk about how we feel in the moment and my kiddo gets to voice his disdain for a situation with a safe adult. I highly recommend. I’m pretty sure it diverted us from and admission from day rehab. It was getting that scary.
Review: It is a beautiful blend of understand your children - This book changed my live. It is a beautiful blend of understand your children, understanding yourself, and become a more conscious family. This book allows you to parent without feeling like you are compromising yourself or your child's spirit. It has raised the level of love and connection in my family to a level I have always wanted to have but didn't know how to get there, now we are. There are few books that I can say changed my life and this is one of them. It changed my life and my families lives as well. This amazing book has changed all the relationships in my life as well, co-workers, in-laws, friends, and so on. I view myself and everyone in a space of love and acceptance. I am more aware of myself and more conscious of my behavior and what I am putting out there. I have moments of reflecting and understand why my child saying something has triggered something deep with in me. If we were taught how to approach each person in this manner the world would change for the better and what a better place to start than with your children.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #329,359 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #592 in Popular Child Psychology #851 in Motherhood (Books) #7,075 in Personal Transformation Self-Help |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (564) |
| Dimensions  | 5.9 x 0.8 x 8.9 inches |
| Edition  | 1st |
| ISBN-10  | 1897238762 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1897238769 |
| Item Weight  | 2.31 pounds |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 225 pages |
| Publication date  | December 24, 2013 |
| Publisher  | Namaste Publishing |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Let your child be heard and seen. Explosive meltdowns gone.
*by G***U on July 17, 2023*

This was an incredible book for me. My son’s meltdowns were progressively getting more and more explosive. I had gotten this book when my kids were toddlers. During one of his meltdowns when I didn’t have a clue of how we got there…I grabbed the book. Looked in the table of contents for what I was seeing. Throwing, hitting…. Opened and quickly read the chapters. Low and behold, I had unconsciously screwed up. He was so frustrated and disconnected from not being heard. I fixed the situation at hand. And then consciously worked on myself moving forward. It was bumpy and messy. But the meltdowns decreased significantly and now they are not explosive. We talk about how we feel in the moment and my kiddo gets to voice his disdain for a situation with a safe adult. I highly recommend. I’m pretty sure it diverted us from and admission from day rehab. It was getting that scary.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ It is a beautiful blend of understand your children
*by J***E on September 7, 2014*

This book changed my live. It is a beautiful blend of understand your children, understanding yourself, and become a more conscious family. This book allows you to parent without feeling like you are compromising yourself or your child's spirit. It has raised the level of love and connection in my family to a level I have always wanted to have but didn't know how to get there, now we are. There are few books that I can say changed my life and this is one of them. It changed my life and my families lives as well. This amazing book has changed all the relationships in my life as well, co-workers, in-laws, friends, and so on. I view myself and everyone in a space of love and acceptance. I am more aware of myself and more conscious of my behavior and what I am putting out there. I have moments of reflecting and understand why my child saying something has triggered something deep with in me. If we were taught how to approach each person in this manner the world would change for the better and what a better place to start than with your children.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Changing my life
*by B***N on November 11, 2014*

I'm only about halfway done, but as soon as I started reading it, I completely got what she was saying. I'm raising my 15 yr old grandchild and it's been a long time since I had to deal with a teenager. I was at my wit's end and finding myself angry at her all the time, so I bought this book and it's made such an incredible difference in my attitude. I'd forgotten that when the parent changes their attitude, the child changes their behavior. Thank you so much for this book. I've recommended it to my daughters so that my other grandchildren will reap the benefits of this very wise approach to parenting.

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