Are You Scaring Him Away?: The Top 4 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest Quickly

Concise and very engaging. Author truly knew how to captivate readers and was very non judgmental nor were any fingers pointed.

As someone who has tried to understand men from their position, i'd say it helps to show women their side quite well. Although it doesn't cover all men, it does show you some of the more foreign to women ways they think and properly tells women how to react or act in the situations where they have a man with that train of existence. Personally, my bf acts more the emotions-on-his-sleeve type and asks me if 'this is alright with me' a lot which are decidedly things that women do wrong according to this book, but i'm not complaining at all because it's interesting, not negative. : D All in all,i'd say read this simply to pry into different ways of thinking. A good psychology read that'll help me for years!As a grain of salt though, remember to always see your man as a person. Not just their gender, so don't go overboard with the 'they're on Mars' stuff. Simply understand that Martians have a different culture, but personality effects how culture effects them!

Enjoyed reading this. Needing to gain additional insights into how men think and this filled an hour long flight. Author seems to know his stuff. A few of the scenarios though I wish he would’ve elaborated on the opposite of what he was explaining. For instance, when he talked about what if all men want is sex from you, how do you get him to be more if your teammate since a balance of both is healthy and needed in a lasting relationship. Well, how about when he’s totally on board as your teammate and not into sex with you? That’s probably another book, or a movie we’ve all seen titled ‘he’s just not that into you’. Just an observation and personal preference. Good book overall. Learned some things and was reminded of some crucial things regarding men and myself. Going to read the red flags one next.

I purchased a variety of relationship self help books and this one appeared after I made my purchased. Although there weren't a ton of reviews, I thought I'd give the kindle version a shot as I could read it instantly and I thought it might help my current situation. I read this book in about an hour. It was a really easy, quick read that got straight to the point. I found myself making some of the many mistakes discussed in this book. I kept thinking as I was reading, "How do I fix this?" and I was very happy to find the author did give great examples on how to recover and continue forward. I do wish there was a bit more information or examples but I very much appreciated that the author didn't say it was a lost cause and walk away. Knowing to take some space and step back is different than knowing how to approach it in a way that says "I am still interested but...." without being too emotional or direct and turning him off to you completely. I also wish this book was about double the length and went in a little bit deeper but it definitely covered the list of it really quickly.

I feel like this is more the men I’ve dated than me. I’m constantly having to juggle w their insecurities and jealousies and some yes commitment issues. I have some myself. A lot of men I’ve dated have been super sensitive and I’m constantly finding myself walking on eggshells to try to figure out their roller coaster of emotions. Some men want you to take the showers or spend time w their friends and consider it rejection when you don’t. It’s so confusing. I give a guy space he thinks I’m not interested. I show him I care and he’s scared. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I think this book just showed me good points for some men but not all.

I am in my mid thirties and so many relationships have ended with me feeling so broken. I was raised to not question people and to comply to keep conflict down. I remember my dad telling me once I needed to just do whatever my brother wanted so there would be peace in the house. As an adult, that translated into me putting up with bad behavior and being viewed as desperate. I was totally confused because I wasn't calling all the time, I wasn't talking about marriage with a guy, ... I was doing the right stuff but I tolerated bad behavior.Hopefully, now I can put this info into practice. I have a great guy in my life who seems distant because of this.If you have struggled to keep good guys and don't know why, I suggest picking this up. So many things I was taught to do it outlined as being wrong things to do.

I have been making almost every mistake in this book so I’m glad that I can see where I need to improve. My favorite part was the ending, where he mentions that the jealous, demanding and nagging woman you thought you were isn’t really you!

I pretty much made every mistake he talked about in the book. I read the whole thing in one weekend and even journaled about it. when my very busy entrepreneurial boyfriend who had been trying to put me on the back burner called again, after mostly ignoring my texts and phone calls, or always being too busy to make time for me, I was able to use what I learned in the book to regain control. Things are starting to turn around. He is starting to try to chase me again. But there are still certain things I want out of the relationship. But I am now willing to walk away if I don't get them. This book was so simple and so easy to read, but very powerful. I recommend it to any woman who has lost herself in a relationship. It helps you reclaim your worth and start being the prize again.

A good book to wipe out the needy disorder , and emphasize on self reliance without forcing , not in a traditional way .

Quick and easy to read. Good advice if you are single or already in a relationship..recognised a lot of my own mistakes. Whoopsie

Un mode d'emploi des relations amoureuses complètement inédit et plein de bon sens. Comment personne ne m'avait jamais dit ça avant!

interesting book with some information and tricks that might help you to understand some situations in your life. Good author

Good if its the first book like this that you read. Otherwise there is not many news. Except a practical exercise mentioned at the end, which I'll try and see how it works.