She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) Paperback – Illustrated, February 1, 2009

“She Comes First” is very highly recommended. It has opened my eyes. It has significantly increased my confidence. It has made me a much better partner/lover.I stumbled upon the book while searching for "The Joy of Sex." At the time, I was newly divorced and in search of direction prior to re-entering the dating world. Based on the reviews, I purchased both books. Unfortunately, I read TJS first. It was somewhat enlightening, but nothing I would recommend. After sitting in my desk for more than a year, I read SCF. It was an eye-opener. I never realized how little I knew about the female anatomy. After reading the book I better understood why over the years women said I was "too fast" and/or "too rough."Although I was a little overwhelmed at times with the technical aspects of the book, the first time I put the techniques into practice I was shocked how easy it was to step up my game. I made a VERY GOOD first impression with the new woman in my life. The responses to my moves were overwhelming. For the first time, I felt like I knew what I was doing. Throughout the night and in to the early morning, I always prioritized her. My contentment took her by surprise. I truly focused on savoring all aspects of pleasing her instead of worrying about my needs/desires. Since this was our first time together, this approach went a long way towards allaying her concerns that my interest might be short-term. As a result, I have laid the ground work for building a key facet for a strong, long-term “relationship.” I stress relationship because the book is about much more than sex. It's a paradigm shift.Unfortunately, my ex-wife will never experience the benefits of my enlightenment. Our sex life was very routine/dull. Although SCF wouldn't have saved our marriage, it might have eliminated an Achilles heel we never discussed.++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++P.S. - The more I practice, the better I be"come." So far, my record is providing five orgasms in one day, across two sessions. I have discovered three ways to GUARANTEE results. I have gone from an amatuer to an expert. Trust me, the techniques work wonders. MOST IMPORTANTLY, my insecurities are gone. Also, by prioritizing my lady-friend, I have rightly made her feel very special. SHE ALWAYS COMES FIRST, in and outside of the bed!!! This makes my life easier and enhances our relationship :-)+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++P.P.S. - As recommended, candle light is essential!!!

The true GLORY of the feminine body is REVEALED FOR THE FIRST TIME in this book - and not in a "mystic", "new age", "sense" - but in the never-before-revealed BIOLOGY and FACTS, based on the actual discoveries and autopsies of women's bodies - that expose and shatter once and for all the lies and indifferent "facts" we have been forced to believe about our "she"-selves.WOMEN - buy this book for your SELF - not for "a thinking man".It is an "owner's manual" to how you are ACTUALLY made - you have NO IDEA!!!!Then, give it to your lover - man or woman -EVERY WOMAN should have access to this INFORMATION about what "SHE" is. What "SHE" means.It is not a MERE "partner's sex manual" - that would be an insult to the revelations, insight and FACTS about how women are made.Whether you have a partner or not, you MUST own this book if you are a woman - to truly appreciate the MAJESTY of your body. To expose the LIES you have been told about sex and the POWERFUL BEAUTY of your HIDDEN body.And if you are a man who loves women and you want to understand (let's say BEGIN TO APPRECIATE) what a woman is - this book will OPEN YOUR MIND and HEART like nothing you have ever read before. NOTHING.And if you are a lover of a woman - YES, BUY IT - for your self and for your "SHE".I dare say it is CRIMINAL that all of us should not be handed a copy of this book in school and/or by our parents and doctors and therapists.Lots of books are "nice" or "great" or a "great read".Few make it to my list of MUST HAVE in my library.This is a world-changing, person-changing, society-changing, lie-shattering book that should be in EVERY personal library.She comes first is a MUST GIVE to every daughter by her mother.She comes first is a MUST GIVE to every mother by her daughter.There should be NO INTIMATE COUPLES who do not OWN a copy of this book.PLEASE honor your SELF enough to buy this book -It will change your life.It will change your perception of your SELF - of "SHE".It will give you instant self-esteem and dignity.It will REVEAL who and what you are.You will be forever changed by this book.This book re-defines - strike that - it UN-defines, looses, and reveals the hidden and never-before-imagined : "SHE" ......

This book was written by a man for men who would like to have an understanding of how men can better improve their relationships and their partners. It give great insight to learning how men or women can increase their confidence and self awareness around the female body. If it had more illustrations to give a better understanding of the authors description would be beneficial.

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every man and woman interested in improving their romance should get this book and read it. explains a lot, shows a lot and helps a lot

Helping men for years :)