Attract The Right Girl: How to Find Your Dream Girl and Be the Man She Can’t Resist (Smart Dating Books for Men)

This book is not what I would call exceptionally written but it's not poorly written either. It left me wanting more in the way of details. However, it touched on a subject that few relationship books written for a male audience do-authenticity of character. I have read a few books that talk about "how to get the girl" because I wanted to step outside of my routine habits of dating women who just don't fit my emotional and social needs. It's not an easy subject because so many books suggest that looking for the "right" has to do with one liners or "peacocking" or that a man needs to focus on personal development. The problem that I've found is that I have two options when it comes to the subject of dating- 1) books and seminars on how to maintain a relationship 2) the books like those written by "Style" and Mystery" There are some valid things that I have taken away from each of these sources. For instance, the relationship books I've read like Love and Respect or Men Are From Mars... have given me a more clear understanding of the social interaction between man and a woman, which is cool. The other sort of books have helped me realize that I don't dress to attract the women I want to date. Both things have been helpful but none of them have focused acutely on the subject of looking for a woman of character and what that woman might be like. None of them touch on the subject that women of character are just as rare as a man of character. This was something I had considered but I'm a guy and therefore naturally a social idiot who has to learn the hard way how to be socially astute. This book made me feel ok with being single while I wait for my girl who DOES have character and knows how to be a supportive loving woman who doesn't seek to push me to do what she wants because she feels I should but instead supports me in making the best decisions for myself or who doesn't simply take my money to fulfill her insatiable and uncontrollable desire to spend but instead understands the need for financial stability, goals and planing.

I'm a shy person when it comes to meeting new people. I can get really shy around girls, not girls who are my friends, but those who I'm potentially interested in, or who are interested in me. And you know, shy men do NOT impress women. Beautiful women prefer guys who are confident, and this means that shy guys usually miss out relationships with women.As the author states in the book, the main reason why most people fail to attract the right girl is because of fear. That's true, at least in my case. I bought this book to get some tips to finally overcome this fear that is holding me back but I've got much more than that.The author really knows what is talking about. This is not the typical book with the typical advice on how to become an alpha/dominant male. This is serious stuff, we are talking about finding our "Miss Right," a high-quality woman who's perfect for us, and becoming a better man to naturally attract the kind of girls we deserve.I especially liked the chapter about "How to Make Her Want You All to Herself", where the author explains The Caged Bird Philosophy and the importance of seeing yourself as a perfect catch for her. Avoid being seen as needy, pushy and common. You are like a rare songbird that she wants to have all to herself.I don't know about you but I won't miss out more potentially fulfilling relationships with women, because maybe one of them is that special girl.To sum up: Well written, fast read, and solid advice. This book is a keeper.

There were two things I wanted to gain from this book.1)confidence2)understanding how a women thinks/her needs and wantsI now have more confidence, and also have a better understand on how a women thinks, and what she wants in a man.The author failed in providing information on how to build your character as a man in depth. How to forget about the previous relationships you may have had, and how to really find that inner strength to know; there is someone out there for you. I read the book in 2 days. It was a short and easy read, a lot of the information I believe we all know intuitively but he did a great job making it clear that a high quality women is looking for a man that is not needy. The author makes it clear that confidence and just being yourself is all you need.I expected to learn more I guess... I still think there's more to it.But the book is worth the purchase, and is worth your time reading.I literally thought I was only 1/4 the way through the book to only find out I had finished all the chapters.I believe if the author spent a little more time really going in depth about the topic I would have given the book 5 stars.This is a 3 star book just because the information is good to know, and is a good reminder. I am still on the look out for a book that provides all the information a guy needs to finding his dream girl, but this book would be a good start on that journey :)Good luck! And god bless

5 rating stars for a book that has huge potential and something very special about it. One read through is not enough, this book is a keeper.

非常に理論的で思い当たる節が解消されました。自分がおかしいのかな？、と思う場面が今まで色々ありましたが、この本で幸せを掴みたいと思います。Bruce–san,Thank you very much♪

He's a good thorough writer on rels and I'm even figuring out situations where I've gone wrong before which used to baffle me

Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuul. Incríveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel. Muito bom.. gostei para carambra.. Recomendo. Super Legal... incrível.. emocionante.. arrasador.. apaixonante.. I luv u Bruce Bryans.. hahaha.

The best read for a man to be the best for a women.