Augustinian Collection Polyester Latin Cross and IHS Lace Front Wrap Alb

I am 5'2 weighing 166 lbs. I want velcro closure

I’m a male, 5’5”, 210 lbs, should I order small?

is the alb machine washable?

I am 5.8" inch woman (taller with heels) and weigh at 165. What size should I order? Thank you