Learning to Bow: An American Teacher in a Japanese School

While I generally enjoyed this book, and found it a quick read, the more I read, the more I was conscious of how dated it was. Glancing through the reviews, I note that I'm not the only reader with that impression. I really think the kindle edition should have been updated. For those wanting something more recent, I found "For Fukui's Sake, Two Years in Rural Japan", while not a perfect book, a more updated version of the foreign teacher in rural Japan experience.This book does well enough when it concentrates on the author's experiences, both as a teacher and as to his personal adventures in Japan - though they're fairly prosaic. Where it falls down is where the author digresses into philosophical analysis, comparing his experiences with Japanese sociology. For one thing I didn't consider that necessary. I suspect like most readers, I took up the book for its description of teaching a year in Japan. The attempt to relate these experiences with dry sociological theory of Japanese culture, seemed a glib and an unconvincing reach. I would rather the author kept the focus on his own experiences. Let the reader draw their own conclusions.Oddly enough, just like "For Fukui's Sake", there's a lot more about the teacher's life with his colleagues and his personal life, than a discussion of his classes, students and his teaching. Which I found disappointing. Not that there isn't some. But it was definitely 2nd or 3rd priority.There's an obligatory account of a climb up Fuji common to nearly all accounts of foreigners in Japan. And a lot of accounts of apparently mandatory drinking and karaoke parties. There were some interesting details on the Fuji climb I had not read in other accounts. As for the drinking/etc parties, I understand they're pretty much required, but they seem as boring to read as to attend. I was okay with the first few, after that, I wish more book space had been spent on something new than a rehash of yet another one. And be aware, this is very much a male view. Women may be teachers in Japan, but in this account, they are few and rare. Most women described are tea ladies and secretaries and mothers get a hard press in Japan, made out to be scholastic heavies demanding kids study to exhaustion. . It lends a very one sided view of the experience. As for the students themselves, their labors are daunting. Interestingly, once they reach college, they are reported to go completely off the rails and just party - perhaps evidence that given they aren't allowed to make choices up to that point, having everything dictated to them on the most minute level, once they escape that supervision, they don't know how to self regulate.Bottom line, if you can only read one 'Japanese teacher in Japan experience', I'd look for something more recent, and frankly, more fun. You can impart the sociology and cultural aspects without the lectures this book intones. OTOH, if you are interested in accounts from this period, then this is readable enough. I was somewhat disappointed in it, for the reasons above, but it was a fast read, and I got something out of it. I just think it could have been better presented.

Bruce Feiler's cultural `adventure', teaching young students in Japan, starts out with a really good laugh as he gets his first lesson on customs; learning to bathe! Truly comedic, though the humor early on bothered me. And sure enough, I eventually learned why.As it happens to be, Learning to Bow is a deeply rooted custom that demands the `utmost' respect, where humor interferes. I wasn't able to grasp the full understanding of what I was feeling until the near end of the book when the graduating children began practicing the bow to perfection. As Feiler too observes, learning to bow is "far more than a mere social greeting: it is the prime ingredient in the syntax of Japanese life."Awareness increased, I truly enjoyed this book. Feiler does a fine job presenting a clear picture of his experiences; from the bath to the cast, to the detailed discipline students receive, to the iron watch of their mothers, and how the students received his visit. I did observe however, how similar the fundamental `undercarriage' of Japanese values as it pertains to stressing a higher education, are to customs in America. True, the methods employed to teach children differ, but hovering pressures on stressing education and continuing on to college and beyond are similar. My favorite treats where I enjoyed the deepest laugh was coming by the question on naming the real estate company... `Up River, was it!?!' Too funny. And without a shred of doubt it took a lot to get up off the floor after reading Sato and Ishikawa's expose on `the way of love'. Absolutely a keepsake. The `Team Teaching' plan I thought, too, was a nice touch-up. Just an overall very interesting read Learning to Bow is. The title speaks volumes!

Bruce Fielder pens the story of his experience as an English Teacher in Japan. Similar to "You Gotta Have Wa", this book is more about the experiences of an outsider fitting in to Japan than the occupational hazards of teaching English. To use his own words, Fielder really does cut into the heart of Japan. Interspersed between stories of the challenges of the educational system are many deeper lessons. Included are an explanation of the importance of group harmony and identity, how co-workers balance formal working relationships with personal bonds, and how personal development differs between Japan and the West.Perhaps my only struggle was hearing how hard it was for the author to find a date in Japan. Japan is legendary for English teachers "punching above their weight" and finding girlfriend's well out of their league in the US. But perhaps the book would have lost it's tone and cultural insights if it degenerated into a story of how many girls the author picked up.The book has held up remarkably over the past 10 years. Despite the bursting of the Japanese bubble, the cultural lessons ring true today. I recommend the book to anyone interested in Japan, independent of occupation.

I lived in Japan and taught English in a small town Junior High School at about the same time Bruce Feiller was living the experience he relates in the book. It was so much fun to relive that time in my life through another person's eyes. The author's writing style is fluid, easy to read and very engaging, not to mention funny! You do not have to be a former english teacher in order to truly enjoy his experiences. Learning to Bow is light and enjoyable. This book gives the reader insight into a culture that can is full of contradictions that only make sense once you've experienced them first hand. A must read for anyone thinking of travelling to Japan especially if he/she will be teaching. For everyone else it will be a very enjoyable, light story of a young man's adventures in a very foreign country.

Tired and self-important, as another reviewer has mentioned. Little insight, originality or humour. Strongly recommend Hokkaido Highway Blues as a much better ex-Jet alternative.

If you're looking for educational pursuits in Japan, then this book is a must read . The author having taught in Japanese schools gives an intimate account of life as a student/educationist in Japan. Quite readable.

Excellent book that gives you special insights on the education system in Japan, the Japanese customs and culture. Recommend for those who fall asleep reading a travel guide and want something more exciting.

It's an alright book with anecdotes about what it was like for this teacher to travel to Japan.

Great thank you