TENA ProSkin Incontinence Underwear for Men, Maximum Absorbency, XLarge, 56 Count (4 Packs of 14)

OK, first off what is all this whining about "can't tell front from back"? Not for nothing, but one side has a thick, absorbent pad right where you might be leaking. On that same side the leg opening is cut higher than the other side. So, that would be the front.I have had to use this type of underwear since a prostatectomy didn't go so well 11 years ago. Over the years I have tried virtually every brand and style available. Yes, the Depends "real fit" are a little fancier, but too pricey to be the every day go-to. The Tena brand is comfortable, affordable, and functional to the max. Five stars and more.

These fit good are comfortable and discreet I work at a tire shop and they are not noticeable under my clothes and they can absorb a full bladder and still be comfortable and not noticeable

First diaper I’ve used that doesn’t fall or sag when I walk or stand up from a seated position. Fits securely without being tight or rubbing. Stays dry longer so it doesn’t irritate your skin. They cost a little more, but I believe they are worth it. I hope they work as well for you. UPDATED; For those having trouble distinguishing the front from the back, hold the waistband at 1 of the 2 side tear-away locations and lightly stretch the elastic. You should be able to see the difference between the white front thread and the blue rear thread. I agree a tag in the back would have been better.

Still a little loose - maybe will get a small next time

I ordered this for my brother and it is too big. Now I want to return 3 packs and get 3 packs of large. I cannot do this. This is not fair.